i feel i must apologize for putting something serious on my web page. nonetheless, here it is. (i once wrote an essay to elaborate on this subject, but the original post is really a lot better.) ---------- Forwarded message ---------- From: slking%scws34.harvard.edu (S King) Newsgroups: alt.fan.karl-malden.nose Subject: Re: Why Boy-Girl? (was Karl Malden Secret Santa) Date: 5 Dec 1995 16:08:07 GMT Cindy Alvarez (calvarez%scunix4.harvard.edu) wrote: : You can care about abortion all you want, Matt. No one's trying : to shut you up. We've just suggested that a.f.k-m.n isn't the : appropriate forum for that. Well, as long as he's being a fuckhead anyway, what the hell. WHY FETUSES DESERVE TO DIE by s king 1. Every fetus could become a viable, individual human being. This is undeniable and is what distinguishes them from haploid sex cells and suchlot, and makes this more of a big deal that menstruation and, uhm... guy stuff. 2. They may well have brainwaves and heartbeats and suchlot, even at such an early phase of development. I'll accept that because it's irrelevant to my point. 3. But, 4. Is that what makes a human? 5. When I hear that someone died, I'm sorry. It makes me sad. Even if I didn't know them personally. But why? Do I think, "Oh, bummer, they no longer have brainwaves or a functioning cardiovascular system" ? 6. No. 7. I think of what life they had been looking forward to and had left to live. 8. I think of their mother. 9. I think of their children. 10. I think of their friends. 11. The tragedy of human death is not a scientific phenomenon. It is a human one. 12. A fetus dies. Do I care? 13. Yes. But do I think of it as the loss of a human life? 14. No. 15. Mothers lift cars off their children to save their lives. Mothers make the decision to end their own pregnancy. Obviously there's a dividing line somewhere. This is what makes birth a "magic moment." Nothing scientific. It is the beginning of external life experience and human social interaction, which, from our human perspective, makes them what and who they are. 16. Fetuses have no friends. Fetuses have no children. Fetuses have parents who do not think of them as a child because they have never met them. It is just an idea. 17. The loss of a fetus is not the same tragedy as the loss of an Official Born Human. To say so cheapens the value of of interpersonal relationships, grieving and the hardships and wonderments of life. 18. The fetus, never having been born, and having only a developing brain to work with, does not know what it is missing. 19. The external human community has never met the fetus, never given it a pacifier and let it grab their fingers, never talked to it, never made it one of them, never formed the social bonds that create a human. The pain of those "left behind" is not present. It is not missed. It is not remembered. 20. If this was to be a big deal, it would have to be because we value the quantity human life, and not the particular humans involved. This is not the case for me. We have too many bloody humans as it is. They get blood everywhere. No, that's not what I meant. People are not scarce. Individuals are valued. This makes the difference. 21. Because a fetus is not yet a particular human. And that's what death means to me. The loss of a particular human. 22. And that's why I'm pro-choice. Because pregnancies at bad times can fuck up the lives of two particular humans, maybe more. 23. That's more important to me. 24. That said, late-term abortions are kind of ghastly and should be kept to a bare minimum, possibly outlawed to encourage people to get it right and either have the baby or abort early. 25. Followups set to harvard.general enjoy. - .